Mistress Wild Iris


dominatrix booking request


to book

Fill out the Session Request Form at the bottom of this page. This form is secure and I will respond to you shortly by email. PLEASE NOTEI do not take sessions with Day-Of Booking. Do not ask.


For questions related to my offerings: first, read my website. Except for up to date availability, all the answers to the questions you will have are here. Next, fill out the session request form. If you have questions that can't be answered by reading this site, email me directly at mistresswildiris@protonmail.com. I will reply at my earliest convenience. I much prefer email to phone communication and typically only give my phone number to clients once the booking is complete to facilitate day-of correspondence. If your scenario is complex and needs phone communication to convey the necessary details, let me know and we can arrange a call at $50/15 minutes.


Once a time and date is agreed-upon, sessions for new clients are secured with a DEPOSIT of $50/session-hour (i.e. $50 for one hour, $100 for two hours, etc.) to be sent via Venmo @WildIris or sent by Etsy gift card to mistresswildiris @ gmail.com. If deposit needs to be completely anonymous (I understand), please purchase an Amazon gift card at your local drug store, scratch off the silver bar on the back, and send me a picture of the code. Upon receipt of this picture, I will book our session. 


Incall and Outcall Rates are the Same; Some Outcall Subject to Travel Expense Depending on Location. See Below for Details 


1 Hour Session (minimum session length) $350, of which $50 is paid ahead of time as a deposit

1 & 1/2 Hour Session $525, of which $75 is paid ahead of time as a deposit

Two Hour Session $700, of which $100 is paid ahead of time as a deposit

Each additional hour $350, including $50/hr deposit


Couples $450/hour

Full Evening (up to six hours of play and social time) $1900

Overnight (12 hours, including 8 hours of sleep) $3000

Full day (up to 12 hours of play and social time) $3600

Drinks, Social time, Lunch/Dinner Date $250/hour plus all expenses paid

Travel Companionship Tribute available upon request. Travel expenses sponsored by client.

Brown Showers Additional $75/session

Email - typically reserved strictly for coordination - is available as email Domination $50/Nasty Email

Outcall - These special sessions where I come to you incur a flat additional $50 if within San Francisco or East Bay; additional $100 if session is in San Jose or further south, or Marin County or further north. When I am traveling, outcall is an additional $100, unless your place is within short-walking distance of my hotel. 

phone & Distance training

I have honey lips when it comes to putting shape to the void. Do you want to have a session with me yet are too far away to make an in-person scene feasible? Phone sessions are one of my favorite ways to dive in deep and become connected across distances. 


For some sessions, a brief phone conversation pre-session or post-session for in person sessions is necessary to share understanding or decompress and process the scene. If you wish to do this, a ten minute phone conversation is available for $50, which can be paid at the same time as the deposit. This applies directly to the in-person session that is in question.

For longer sessions not attached to a particular in-person session, tribute for 30 minutes is $150; $225/hour; $100/each additional half hour.


To book, submit details of your desired session via My Session Request Form. I will respond to confirm the time that works for me to talk. The session will be paid for in full via Venmo, Etsy, or Amazon gift card prior to talking. Once I receive your tribute, I will send further details of how to prepare for the call.

Tribute for a phone session is non-refundable. Sessions rescheduled within 24 hours notice are subject to the forfeiture of your tribute.

 I will expect your call promptly at the scheduled time. Ten minutes late and your session is considered a "no-show" and your tribute is lost.

If you wish to gift above and beyond tribute, my wishlist will give you some ideas. I do so adore a fine chocolate; ask me for my address to send me a box of my favorites.


 I host Incall sessions at The Black Thorn complex in Oakland - most typically in The Sacred Muse dungeon, and occasionally in The Attic. The Black Thorn is comprised of a lovely & discreet Victorian house dungeon and converted horse carriage-stable in a peaceful residential neighborhood. 

I love to travel and will gladly take outcall sessions in which I travel to your location. If the Outcall is within the Greater Bay Area, no space rental fee is incurred for these sessions; however, note that if travel is to San Jose or further south or to Marin County or further North, Travel Allowance of $100 is added to the total tribute. If you choose to send a Lyft to take me from the East Bay to you, the travel fee is waived.


I prepare for my sessions both mentally and physically, creating space in my calendar and heart to be fully present with you. Many comment on the penetrating presence I exhibit in life, and it is with pleasure that I offer this to you during our session. This said, my time is valuable and I request a tribute that honors this. Negotiation of this tribute is something that does not interest me and attempt to do so will mar my interaction with you. I love to play and thank you for the opportunity to host this magical space.


I understand that things happen and that occasionally we need to arrive late. This said, time-wise, sessions start and end at the before-agreed upon time regardless your arrival time. Please take all measures necessary to arrive on time. Thank you. 

rescheduling & cancellation policies


If the session needs to be rescheduled, deposit may be transferred to the next date if the session is rescheduled with greater than 48 hours notice. The deposit is both non-refundable and non-transferrable within 48 hours of the session. Once issued deposits will not be refunded; do not ask.


Sessions rescheduled with greater than 48 hours notice can have the deposit transferred to the subsequent session provided the session is within one month/30 days. Sessions cancelled or “no-show” within 48 hours notice are subject to a charge of half the session total, to be paid immediately via electronic transfer. Full tribute is also required upon booking for subsequent session (or more if I deem necessary).


A non-refundable deposit is required for ALL sessions outside of the Bay Area, regardless if we have seen each other previously. Sessions that need to be rescheduled can have the deposit applied to another time within the travel window that I am in your city, if there is greater than 48 hours notice. If you are unable to reschedule, deposit is non-refundable and non-transferrable. Sessions cancelled or “no-show” within 48 hours notice are subject to a charge of half the session total, to be paid immediately via electronic transfer. Full tribute is also required upon booking for subsequent session (or more if I deem necessary).


I take sessions seven days a week between 9am-9pm with at least 24 hours-advance notice. I DO NOT take same-day sessions, so it is best to book in advance. 

My company is in high demand and my schedule tends to run deliciously full; it is advisable to request your session as soon as possible.

Booking Request Form

Service *
Note: I do not offer sex of any kind; please refrain from asking.
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Your name *
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Your phone number *
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Birthday *
Introduce yourself as though we're about to go on our first date.
What do you consider yourself to be the most? *
Please outline desired activities including role-play, services, attire, implements, limits, etc. Please also use this space to include any questions you may have for me, after thoroughly reading my site.
Herbalist Consent *
I am a Clinically-trained Herbalist and enjoy working with medicinal herbs in session to enhance and deepen your experience. No illicit or quasi-legal herbs will be used during the session, including cannabis. Check this box if you are interested in my incorporating herbs into the session.
Our session will be intimate and I may see issues with your body that herbal medicine could resolve. If I notice something of this sort, would you like for me to tell you about a potentially-helpful remedy or no?
Experience level *
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Note: There is a ninety minute minimum session for new clients, and ninety minutes or longer is preferred for returning clients, though exceptions can be made. For phone sessions, the minimum session length is 30 minutes. Write your desired session length in the box below.
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Note: My calendar fills quickly and I do not take day-of sessions, so please do not request this. 24 hours notice is required, and more advance notice is appreciated.
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Provide one or more of the following: provider references [preferred], employment verification, personal reference, web presence reference, in person consultation. Note: I always check references.
I will pay my deposit via: *
Sessions are written in Pen in my calendar once a deposit is received; until this point, the session is considered un-confirmed. A deposit of $50/session-hour is required for all first time clients, and if cancellation/rescheduling becomes an issue, it will be required for subsequent sessions. This deposit is non-refundable once issued, and non-transferable if the session is cancelled or rescheduled within 24 hours of the session. It can be paid by Venmo, Amazon gift card, or as a gift card to any of the below-listed sources. Note below which source you will utilize to provide deposit. All gift cards can be addressed to Wild Iris and sent to mistresswildiris@gmail.com Sessions must be scheduled with at least a day's notice. Requests for same-day sessions will be met with a "No;" this is not my favorite word -- please do not make me say it to you. Repeat requests for same-day sessions will result in my blocking you as a contact. Please be respectful of my time - thank you! Deposit will be deducted from the final tribute; the remainder of the tribute can be presented at the time we meet.
Where did you find me? *
Verification of booking policies *
Acknowledgement of Hard Limit Policies. Checking here indicates that you understand my hard limits and that if you transgress upon them, the session will be terminated immediately without refund. *
Are you ready to have the time of your life? *