Mistress Wild Iris
DOMINATRIX OF the SAN FRANCISCO BAY AREA

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WELCOME HOME

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How do you choose to dive into the deep?

 

HOW TO BOOK

Fill out My Session Request Form. This form is secure and I will respond to you shortly by email. 

Advanced booking only.

I host incall sessions at a discreet dungeon in a residential Oakland neighborhood near Lake Merritt.

I take sessions seven days a week between 9am-9pm with at least 24 hours-advance notice, when I am in town.

I also love to travel and will gladly take outcall sessions in which I travel to your location. If travel is to San Jose or further south, or to Marin County or further north, travel allowance is added to the total tribute.

ETIQUETTE

Come well-rested, well-hydrated, clear of mind and heart, and ready to begin.

 
 
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Note: If there are fantasies or fetishes you wish to play with, which are not listed below, please check with me to see if I would like to explore them with you.

SENSUAL DOMINATION

I am truly a sensual hedonist. Reveling in the lusciousness of the body is a birthright and I am here to enjoy pleasure to its greatest extent. Some games I enjoy to explore body/mind/spirit pleasure in a deeper way include...

TEASE AND DENIAL

I know precisely what you want and how ever do I delight in dangling it right in front of you. This kitty does so love to play with her mice..

WORSHIP

Foot (Size 11), Heels, Boots, Stockings, Legs, Leather, Latex. How my feet are so incredibly sensitive…

BONDAGE

What bigger treat is there than to get to know our body in a new way? Bondage allows you to feel our bodies held securely and gives way to a very deep level of surrender.

SMOTHERING, BREATH PLAY, AND FACE SITTING

Are you already touching yourself visualizing my lingerie-laced ass lowering itself onto your face?

 

SADO-MASOCHISM

I am a sadist by nature; I revel in evoking cathartic experiences for other people. As a Vipassana meditator, I find extreme sensation a fascinating place where the lines of pain and pleasure blur. I begin slowly with new clients and, depending on your excitement and willingness to venture in deep, issue a great deal of sensational experience to leave you tingling, reoriented, and flushed in the bliss.

As Kahlil Gibran explores in The Profit, “Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy; and you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields. And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.”

Some of my favorite ways to play with S & M include:

ELECTRIC PLAY WITH THE EROS TEK

Our bodies are electrical beings, and evoking pulsating pleasure with electrodes alone is stunning to say the least.

PIERCING PLAY

I’m a needle freak and have piercing needles 25-14G (and barbells of 14 & 16G) - are you ready to go through the tunnel of pain and emerge with a badge of honor? Shall I give you 40 needles for your 40th birthday? Fifteen for your $15K bonus? How do you care to mark milestones?

CORPORAL PUNISHMENT & PHYSICAL IMPACT PLAY

With my pleasure chest of implements, I question: How deep will you go?

FLOGGING, CANING OTK SPANKING, AND EXTENDED SPANKING

Relax in a crescendo of bliss as all tension melts under the slap of my hand.

CBT AND BALL BUSTING

If only men could be liberated from their C & B. Never fear - I am here to help.

TORTURE WITH NATURAL WORLD IMPLEMENTS

Some may cook with Stinging Nettles, Ginger, and Cayenne, but I prefer to play with them. I have a garden filled with plants that will drive you into the deepest of natural ecstasies.


NIPPLE PLAY & TORTURE

How sensitive are your nipples? Oh I do love to pinch and pull, bite and nibble, caress and slap those dainty little things…

CLAMP & CLOTHESPIN PLAY

One, two, three, fourteen, fifty. Clothespins and clamps are applied with ease … and delightfully flicked off with a swift twitch of my wrist. How these pins so sensitize your precious flesh. Where do you go as the pain begins to take hold? Together, we keep you focused as you expand to hold a magnitude of sensation you never before thought possible.

MEDICAL ROLE PLAY FANTASY

A medical herbalist by training, I delight in the myriad of ways to direct the functioning of your body with my devices. Try me.

ELEMENTAL PLAY

As ice traces your skin and cements the shivers that began the moment we locked eyes, your resolve melts faster than our beloved glaciers. Or shall I instead pour molten beeswax over your flesh and brand you mine? My choice.

SMOKING FETISH

I’m already blowing smoke in your face… one drag on my herbal cigarette to give my breath form and you will feel this dragon’s breath melt you entirely

 

STRICT & PLAYFUL FANTASY

Directing the games and ultimately winning is oh-so delightful for me.

FANTASY ROLE PLAY

I absolutely love the psychological exploration of the most secret fantasies. I find that role play is one of the most cathartic ways to explore scenarios we have otherwise deemed taboo - that in giving the space to play out and evolve, we ultimately liberate ourselves from their stranglehold on us. What's the scenario you're dying to enact?

WRESTLING

This can span the spectrum of playful fantasy to hard core competitive. I am formally trained in wrestling and hold a black belt in Martial Arts and can likely whip your ass in the ring.

SERVE ME

Acts of service are a premier form of receiving love for me, and I adore a submissive who wants to serve my needs as his practice of devotion.

FANTASY CUCKHOLDING

Can you imagine a life in which you are adequate to be my true lover? Too bad for you, I am already completely satisfied and you will have to do with enjoying the fantasy of serving my lover.

CROSS DRESSING & SISSY BOY HUMILIATION

So. You want to dress up in my panties and learn what it really means to be a slut… Come here darling.

SMALL PENIS HUMILIATION & VERBAL ABUSE

Humiliate your cock? What cock?

 

HEALTH COACH

HERBALISM

My connection with the natural medicines of the plant world leaves me in a unique position to assist you in bringing your body into dynamic balance. Herbs can be incorporated into your life during session to help with opening, bliss, endurance, and receptivity, and after-session to assist with integration. If you want to have herbs incorporated into the session or if you would like custom tailored-advice for herbal medicines to take post-session, let me know and we can discuss it in our negotiation.

 

PHONE & DISTANCE TRAINING

Do you seek a session with me yet are too far away to make an in-person scene feasible? Phone sessions are one of my favorite ways to dive in deep and connect across distances. 


PROTOCOL

To book, submit details of your desired session via My Session Request Form. I will respond to confirm the time that works for me to talk. The session will be paid for in full prior to talking. Once I receive your tribute, I will send further details of how to prepare for the call.

 I expect your call at the scheduled time. Ten minutes late and your session is considered a "no-show."

If you wish to gift above and beyond tribute, my wishlist will give you some ideas.

 

ADDITIONALLY...

New Fetishes I have not yet explored. Tantalize me.

 
 
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HARD LIMITS

These are firm.

Any violation of my limits will result in immediate termination of the session without refund of tribute.

Limits include:

No nudity & No sex

No kissing above the knee

With my boundaries respected, I am a very well-pleased dominatrix. It is essential that we be on the same page, we will have a negotiation pre-scene during which boundaries for us both are reiterated and safe word are established.

While this thankfully has not happened, I reserve the right to terminate the session without refund if my boundaries are violated in any way.