Mistress Wild Iris

PREMIER HERBALIST DOMINATRIX based in the SF BAY AREA

your mistress WELCOMEs you HOME


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THESE ARE A FEW OF MY FAVORITE THINGS.. how do you like to dive in deep?

SENSUAL DOMINATION

I am truly a sensual hedonist. Reveling in the lusciousness of the body is a birthright and I am here to enjoy pleasure to its greatest extent. Some games I like to play with to explore body/mind/spirit pleasure in a deeper way include...

Tease and Denial — I know precisely what you want and how ever do I delight in dangling it right in front of you. This kitty does so love to play with her mice..

Body Worship - Foot (Size 11), Ass, Legs, Breasts, Hair — My body is tender, sensitive, and powerful, and how I so love to be adored. My feet are incredibly sensitive and love kissing, licking, massage.. Note: no Worship of Any Area Otherwise Covered by a Thong.

Anal Play on You, including Dildo Play & P-Massage — There’s little I love more than exploring a man’s innermost intimacy..

Smothering, Breath Play, and Face-sitting with my Plump Jiggly Ass & Breasts. Are you already touching yourself visualizing my ass lowering itself onto your face? Note: with Face-sitting I do not allow pussy or rosebud worship.

Bondage — What bigger treat is there than to get to know our body in a new way? Bondage allows us to feel our bodies held securely and gives way to a very deep level of surrender.

Yoni Massage (for female-bodied)

SADO-MASOCHISM

To start — I am a sadist by nature. I revel in evoking cathartic experiences for other people and as a vipassana meditator, find pain a fascinating method of bluring the lines of what we find painful and what seems pleasurable. I always start slow with new clients and depending on your excitement and willingness to go deep, will happily bring about a great deal of sensational experience that will leave you tingling, reoriented, and flushed by the release.

As Kahlil Gilbran explores in The Profit, “Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. Even as the stone of the fruit must break, that its heart may stand in the sun, so must you know pain. And could you keep your heart in wonder at the daily miracles of your life, your pain would not seem less wondrous than your joy; and you would accept the seasons of your heart, even as you have always accepted the seasons that pass over your fields. And you would watch with serenity through the winters of your grief.

Some of my favorite ways to play with S & M include…

Bondage - You may resist at first till you realize the ecstasy of surrender! Bondage can hold the body in a way that is deeply nurturing, while simultaneously giving me full access to your naked quivering body..

Electric play with My Eros Tek — our bodies are electrical beings, and evoking a pulsating pleasure with electrodes alone is stunning to witness.

Piercing Play. I’m a piercing freak and have piercing needles and barbells size 14 & 16 - are you ready to go through the tunnel of pain and emerge with a badge of honor?

Needle and Blood Play, size 14-25G needles available. Again, needle freak. Are we giving you 40 needles for your 40th birthday? Fifteen for your $15K bonus? How do you like to mark milestones?

Corporal Punishment & Physical Impact Play - with Body and Implements — How deep will you go?

Flogging, Caning, OTK Spanking & Extended Spanking — Relax and release as all tension melts under the slap of my hand..

Cock & Ball Torture (CBT) and ball busting! — If only men could be liberated from their C & B. I’m here to help!

Torture with Stinging Nettles, Ginger, Cayenne & Natural World Implements

Nipple Play and Torture — are your nipples sensitive? How I do love to bite and nibble, caress and slap those dainty little things

Clothespin Play — one, two, three, fifteen, forty. They go on easily and how these pins sensitize your precious flesh.

Urethral Sounding — Surprisingly, a metal rod can provide extraordinarily pleasure when slipped deep into the urethra. Want to find out?

Elemental Play – Wax & Ice — to evoke and delight, soften and heighten

Smoking Fetish — I’m already blowing smoke in your face.. give me a cigarette to give my breath form and you will feel this dragon’s breath melt you entirely

STRICT & PLAYFUL FANTASY

As an older sister, directing the games and ultimately winning is oh-so delightful for me.

Showers – Golden, Brown, and Full Toilet Training. Are you ready to go all the way for me?

Forced & Ruined Masturbation — want to cum? Too bad! I will direct you to the edge and dangle you safely over the cliff while you experience catharsis in your body like you have never before imagined possible.

Role Play – I absolutely love the psychological exploration of the most secret fantasies. I find that role play is one of the most cathartic ways to explore scenarios we have otherwise deemed taboo - that in giving the space to play out and evolve, we ultimately liberate ourselves from their stranglehold on us. Age play, race play, work-environment play, incest play, professor/student play — what's the scenario you're dying to enact? The more taboo the better!

Wrestling — This can span the spectrum of playful fantasy to hard core competitive. I am formally trained in wrestling and hold a black belt in Martial Arts and can likely whip your ass in the ring or on the bed.

Service Domination — Acts of service are a premier form of receiving love for me, and I adore a submissive who wants to serve my needs as his practice of devotion.

Fantasy Cuckolding —

Cross Dressing & Sissy Boy Humiliation — I will teach you what it really means to be a slut.

Small Penis Humiliation & Verbal Abuse — Humiliate your cock? What cock? I have seen larger members on XYZ.

ADDITIONLLY...

New Fetishes I have not yet explored. Tantalize me.


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HARD LIMITS


These are firm - any violation of my limits will result in immediate termination of the session without refund of tribute. Limits include:

  • No kissing of any kind on the lips.

  • Do not attempt to put anything in my mouth, including fingers or toys.

  • No touching of anything on my body otherwise covered by a thong, regardless how many layers of clothing I am wearing.

  • Do not rub your body against mine; if you do this, I will be neither turned on nor amused.

  • If you wish to take poppers during session, I will need this to be announced pre-session or during negotiation so that I can set up proper ventilation. I am not interested in inhaling popper fumes.

With my boundaries respected, I am a very well-pleased dominatrix. It is essential that we be on the same page so that we can play fully and freely; to ensure this, we will have a negotiation pre-scene during which boundaries for us both are reiterated and safe word are established.

While this thankfully has not happened, I reserve the right to terminate the session without refund if my boundaries are violated in any way.