TAKE THIS WORK ROOTS-DEEP
DIVE INTO THE MAGICAL REALM OF THE PLANTS
Much of the world of BDSM plays out in the subconscious, wherein memory and fantasy dance. This space can be difficult to access directly, and in our BDSM play is done by suspending reality and replacing it with a microcosmic “scene” through which we enact a facet of this reality. Depending on how one plays, work in this realm can either drive subconscious beliefs in deeper —reinforce the groove on the record, if you will— or liberate one from the belief pattern —i.e., make a new tune.
The fruit of the subconscious is what we see in our waking life - it is how we live, how we think, how we express ourselves, what we believe to be possible, and ultimately what we make into our daily reality. We can accept our reality and our beliefs as default, or given, or we can choose to go in deeper and co-work with our subconscious to liberate our paradigm to one that allows us to experience grounded freedom in this temporary human condition.
It’s here in the dark void of the subconscious that much of the work of the plants also plays out. Humanity’s co-evolution with plants is DNA-deep; our cells speak the same language, and their spirits mirror ours in magnitude. Plants are here as powerful allies in our evolution as a species, not only as materials for food, shelter, fiber, carbon sequestration, CO2—>O2 conversion, but as massive allies in our lifelong healing process. Plant medicines can be worked with in most every scenario in which we find ourselves in need of healing - from the seemingly mundane cut or bruise to systemic-level nervous system reset, digestive health building to energy and stamina. From healing a spiritual crisis and a sense of belonging here on Earth, to sexual health rewiring - in the fertile realm of the subconscious, all is possible, and there is plant partner for every —EVERY— malady we can experience.
In our BDSM scene, much is teased and evoked. Thought patterns, emotions, beliefs about the self — all this can and will arise as we play together. Things can be set loose in the subconscious realm that will have direct and profound effects on the every day aspects of your life. With plants as our intentional allies, our work can make it’s way to the roots of your psyche and have the most lasting effects.
THE INVITATION
I am an herbalist trained in working with plant medicine to right issues from the physical and the emotional, to the spiritual, and ultimately, the whole being. I work with my clients on a vast range of issues to pair them with the plant medicine that will bring them back into balance. We can explore any one (or more) of the following issues, through the lens of BDSM. Some issues that arise frequently that I particularly enjoy addressing include:
Connection with the divine & ability to trust and surrender
Self-Love, radical self-acceptance, and permission
Issues of the heart - from heartbreak, to trust, to processing and releasing grief
Relationship issues, particularly issues regarding intimacy and connection with partners
Chronic and acute Anxiety and Depression
Eating and Overeating and other addictive behavior
Nutritional deficiencies and eating disorders
Strategy around bettering oneself, developing routine, meaning, and sense of purpose for one’s life
Ability to embody power and act out one’s will in the world
Misanthropy and hopelessness about the fate of the world
Separation from feelings of beauty
WHAT PLANT MEDICINE LOOKS LIKE
Initial sessions are two hours and follow up sessions are one to three hours.
During this time we will explore your specific intention with the toolkit of BDSM and Herbal Medicine. You will identify precisely what you wish to work on. Often, the issues that create the greatest pain are the ones whose resolution will bring the greatest catharsis.
We will begin our time together talking over tea, and close by discussing any lifestyle practices which emerged from our session. I will make an herbal formula for you to follow in the weeks to months that follow.
Sessions can be one-off, or for those deeply desiring to address issues with clarity and guidance, they can be ongoing until the issue or issues are resolved.
Note: Hard limits that apply to the Dominatrix and Massage services still apply here.
TO BOOK A PLANT MEDICINE SESSION
If you are interested in working together in this context, please fill out the Session Request Form and note your interests. I will reach back to you when this form arrives to my inbox.